Words Seaside Sue, Publisher & Owner
I know I’ve been speaking alot about mental health lately, but I guess when something I’ve experienced is relevant enough to share, I sometimes look to Seaside to express in words what others may find difficult to discuss. This time, it’s about kindness.
Every now and then, life gives us a gentle (or sometimes not-so-gentle) reminder of how important kindness is. Recently, I found myself in a situation where a neighbourhood project I was working on took an unexpected turn. Instead of sharing ideas and concerns directly, decisions were made without me, and the flow of collaboration was lost. It wasn’t the end of the world, but it did leave me feeling a little sad. It made me stop and think about how much of our daily life depends on how we choose to treat one another. A conversation held with respect can strengthen trust, while one handled poorly can leave a lasting bruise. We may not always agree, but there is always a way to approach differences that leaves everyone feeling heard.
What could have been done differently? It’s simple really – communicate openly, listen with patience, and approach others with empathy. Even when there’s a challenge to address, kindness allows us to face it together instead of apart. We live in a time when our communities need connection more than ever. Small acts – a thoughtful word, a moment of listening, a willingness to talk things through – can be more powerful than we realize. So, before speaking or acting, I try to ask myself: “Will this make someone feel valued?” If the answer is yes, then it’s a choice worth making. Because at the end of the day, kindness doesn’t just change someone else’s day – it changes ours too.
Enjoy the fruits of our labour this issue … from all of our kind hearts.
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