This month, as we spotlight men to watch, I’ve found myself reflecting on the kind of strength that often goes unnoticed – the strength it takes to change course, to lift others up, to lead with quiet support and steady encouragement.
My partner, Tyler, recently became a registered massage therapist, graduating as valedictorian at the age of 48. After decades in another field, he chose to start over – not because he had to, but because he wanted a life that felt more aligned with his values and passions. Watching him move through two years of study, clinical work and exams, all while holding true to his sense of humour and kindness, has been incredibly inspiring. He’s now working as an RMT in Sidney, and turns 49 this year – proof that it’s never too late to grow and reinvent yourself.
I’ve also been thinking about my dad, a contractor with five daughters and a home full of strong women. He taught us how to build and shovel, sure, but also how to bake, clean with care, and show up for the people we love. His strength was never loud or rigid; it was in the way he made us feel capable, equal and deeply supported through all of life’s ups and downs.
This issue is full of stories that celebrate men who show up for their families, communities and themselves. The Men to Watch feature on page 15 highlights men leading with courage and heart in many forms. Meanwhile, the article Queer Joy and Self Expression on page 40 reminds us how living authentically creates space for connection, resilience and transformation.
For me, strength often looks like those quiet, everyday moments – the kindness, the encouragement, the steady presence. Those are the stories I’m proud to share and the people worth watching.
Tabatha Golat, Editorial Director
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