The other night I was watching the NBC Nightly News and there was a story about a program named “Good Night Lights” at the Lifespan Hasbro Children’s Hospital in Providence, Rhode Island. Called “A Magic Minute to Brighten Spirits,” the nightly event sees first responder vehicles, local businesses and even people with flashlights flicker their lights to “send a message of love and support” to the young patients at the hospital, who gather at the windows every night to witness the spectacle.
This simple idea, conceived of by the hospital’s resident cartoonist, quickly took hold in the community and has now become a tradition.
I love stories like this: stories of people joining together for a simple, thoughtful cause. It seems that traditions are quickly formed when the initial event is sparked by a kind gesture. These are the things that remind us of our place in our community, and the emotional benefit that comes from helping others.
Sometimes it’s the big things, like a fundraiser quickly organized for a neighbour in need, or a social media call-out to anyone who might have a suite available for a family living in their car. Sometimes, it’s simply holding the door for someone; taking a few minutes to talk with a chatty cashier, even when you’re running late; or helping a neighbour with their groceries.
Our resident stylist, Shai Thompson (pg 47) agrees: “for me, style is more than what you wear … it’s how you treat others. So please be kind; it’s the best style to wear.”
And of course, October brings Thanksgiving. It’s a good time to take note of all these things – both little and big – that help us build the structure of our community. It is a time, quite simply, for giving thanks.
In this month’s Trendspotting (pg 9), Susi McMillan sources out some unique, thoughtful host gifts to bring to your next gathering, whether it be Thanksgiving, or an evening with friends. Finding that perfect, considerate surprise for someone is sure to brighten their day, and yours for having been the cause.
Giving thanks: for the safety and health of my family, wonderful friendships and the community in which I live.
