by Deborah Rogers –
“When life gives you lemons …” was going to be the theme of my “Last Word” this month. I had a whole citrus-infused riff, with pithy puns, but I find I’m just not quite ready to laugh at myself yet. I’m normally good at shaking off any urge to feel sorry for myself, but honestly, I’ve been having a week!
I keep my life busy because I like to be involved in lots of things. It brings me joy to work and volunteer and have hobbies and friends, and of course all the family responsibilities and pleasures too. But I recognize that my schedule doesn’t have a lot of give in it, so when things start to unravel I feel the impact all over the place. Despite planning and preparation, life events got in the way of a big goal, and I’ve been feeling disappointed and blue.
Sue always says that she believes “things happen for a reason.” I don’t know that I quite feel the same, but it is definitely true that when you’re ready to look for a solution, or support, there’s always lots of it out there. As I sat down to proofread this bumper July issue, the first words I read were from our longtime writer Jo Barnes. This month she “was reminded about the value of learning in life. We might make a few mistakes along the way, but we also grow and discover new approaches and skills. In the end, our lives become richer.” OK, that’s helpful.
Two paragraphs later Heidi and Coleen wrote about “the power of perseverance and determination,” and immediately after them, from Harninder Jacquot: “our time is precious so I hope you take a moment to pause and bring your family together.” Hmmm, these words were making all kinds of sense. The page finishes with Kristen Roden reminding us that “our lives have gotten quite busy and we sometimes forget to slow down and enjoy our beautiful Island.”
I’m not saying Seaside Magazine is the cure for all problems but, reading through the variety of stories and seeing all the different lives – each filled with their own setbacks and challenges but also charms and triumphs – it really made me feel better. Maybe I am ready for that big glass of refreshing lemonade!
Have a wonderful summer – whatever your plans!
Photo by Janis Jean Photography. Styled by Shai Thompson at House of Lily Koi, Sidney.
