Words Tabatha Golat
Will Ferrell – famous for his work on Saturday Night Live – is known for his comedic chops and over-the-top impressions. What he’s less known for is his deep dedication to friendships and his desire to support the transgender community. This month’s movie recommendation, the Netflix documentary Will & Harper, is a film that challenges perceptions of Ferrell and offers an enlightening look at the transgender experience. It’s a beautiful exploration of friendship and an incredible learning opportunity for cisgender audiences.
The film follows Will Ferrell and Harper Steele – friends of more than 30 years, having met on the set of Saturday Night Live. During the end of the pandemic, Harper sent an email to Will announcing her transition: “I’m old now, and as ridiculous and unnecessary as it may seem to report, I’ll be transitioning to live as a woman.” Ferrell, stunned but supportive, suggested a cross-country road trip where they could reconnect and document Harper’s experience as a trans woman – with the safety of her famous friend by her side. Harper agreed, offering to answer any of Will’s questions, no matter how sensitive or curious.
One of the most striking parts of the documentary is Harper’s courage in openly sharing her transition journey with Will, trusting in his love and desire to truly understand her experience. The result is an honest, raw exchange that is both deeply moving and insightful.
The 16-day journey begins in New York City with a reunion of the duo’s old SNL friends, including Tina Fey and Seth Meyers, who reminisce about their shared history while expressing support for Harper. As the pair travels across the country, Harper details her painful journey to self discovery and voices concerns about her safety in the more conservative states they visit concerns that prove valid during a tense moment at a Texas steakhouse. Their candid conversations throughout the journey reveal layers of emotion, humour and resilience.
Through it all, the documentary reveals the depth of their friendship, highlighting how love and mutual respect can bridge any gap. Ferrell’s unwavering support, paired with Harper’s openness, creates a heartfelt narrative that’s funny, sad, raw, and inspiring.
Will & Harper is an important watch – equal parts touching and educational, offering a glimpse into a lifelong friendship and the beauty of choosing love and understanding over fear.
For more movies that offer insights into this beautifully diverse world, check out my recommendations below:
1. Moonlight (Netflix)
2. The Farewell (Apple TV)
3. The Secret Life of Bees (Prime Video)
4. 20 Feet from Stardom (Apple TV)
5. The Joy Luck Club (Amazon)
