– by Mike Dunsmuir –
The man cave, the male sanctuary. Ask any hard-working, devoted family man if they would love a man cave; they would wholeheartedly, and undoubtedly grunt, “Boy would I!” Why does the mere mention of the concept conjure up such deep-rooted enthusiasm? Perhaps it’s not just an overindulgent self-centred attitude, but in part a reflection of the post-modern era.
Most men will admit that they defer to their better halves the authority over the whole house in terms of décor, so the man cave, therefore, is the last bastion where wagon wheel coffee tables and beer can lamps can reign unabashed and permanently on display … a place to unwind, and connect with other males like in the good old days, but all the while still close to home.
Of course, the ultimate man cave does not grow on trees, but really any space will do: even if it’s just a Lazy Boy in the third bedroom with a set of headphones.
The décor; however, in order to be a true “man cave,” should be under the complete control of the occupant. Sorry ladies!
To view examples of the ultimate man cave, one has only to do a google search, and voila: testosterone in overload. Go ahead and drool. Guy’s, it’s all there. Yes, other males really have these things. I know!
Big screens, bars, beer kegs, pool tables, vending machines, home theatres, dart boards, neon signage, bucket chairs, pinball machines, antlers, putting greens, framed autographed jerseys, motorcycles and classic cars – everything from automotive to hunting to old diner themes, that are obviously not in everyone’s budget nor allowable floor area. But if you’re wanting your own personal man space, it only needs one thing: to be a reflection of your own personality.
Man caves can be also be places for hobbies – such as model building or music rooms – not just for sports, entertainment and championship games on the big screen. If you just want a quiet place to read and reflect, your own personal space can be a great retreat.
They can be converted garages, basements, and attic spaces, or built into a new custom home. But like any other design creation, it should start with working within the physical constraints and budget. Don’t try and cram too much into a tight space, and carefully consider all of your needs. First determine your use: what it is you want to do in your cave? Is it billiards, media, or hobbies? Then design to suit. If you have lots of space, create zones or areas that focus on certain activities. Invest in the décor; if it’s a nice space, you’ll want to hang out there.
One thing though: before you get started, you should probably run this past the wife.
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