by Sue Hodgson –
I was walking one of my dogs the other day and was greeted by a client of mine, since retired but still living in the community. With a bright, wide-eyed smile he asked: “Sue, I just love your magazine! After all these years how do you continue to come up with such great content?” I smiled back and replied: “look around us, our community has so much to offer; you just have to dig a little to uncover some of the real treasures!”
He went on to say: “Seaside has really become part of our community, a real pleasure to read and it possesses such personality. But how do you do it? It must be so much work!” I bring this up to raise a few points about creating balance in our lives. I have a confession: I was a workaholic in my 20s. I badly wanted not only to achieve, but to overachieve: to go farther, faster and do more than anyone else. Whatever it took to get ahead in my career, that’s what I spent time doing. I was really happy during those years and honestly don’t regret a moment of all that hard work.
Today, I still work very hard but I have a keener appreciation for all the non-work pleasures life can bring. When I’m away from work, I try really hard to stay away from it. Don’t get me wrong: there are many 5:30 a.m. days thinking up and creating new ideas for the magazine. But the reality is, you’re going to be a better, more effective person with your work if you have a more satisfying personal life. So, I responded by saying: “I truly love what I do and I think having that passion makes all the difference; it makes it so easy, really.” Maybe using the word passion sounds cliché, but I believe it’s absolutely true. And how great is it that I make a living doing what I love!
I don’t suggest I know it all – far from it. But it’s always fascinating once in a while to look back over my career and life. What has struck me, time and time again as I recalled stories and thought of the experiences that have shaped me, is how lucky I’ve been. But we create our own luck, don’t we?
Opportunities will come … they always do. We just need to see them, add that passion and wow, the world is our oyster!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there!
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