– by Cydney Hellier Gray, Cydney Hellier Gray Design –
Welcome to the fast approaching Holiday Season! Here on the West Coast, we are lucky to conjure up different images of how the holidays appear to us, instead of the typical snowy fields and icy sidewalks. More often than not, we are surrounded by trees of green, with crisp winter berries and cones. We go on family walks, cycle or sail all through December.
Over the years we have been inspired by many decorating themes, from the all-white Christmas tree, paperwhites on window sills, the simple pure aesthetic with some glitter thrown in. We’ve seen silver baubles in large clear glass vases and groupings of vintage silverware collections. From tartan ribbons, big red throws and bowls of pinecones to card collections and groupings of candlesticks, the looks are endless. And then there’s the whole topic of what the theme is going to be for all the gifts under the tree.
I really feel it’s time to take a step back and take care of ourselves. Drop any feeling of guilt from others’ expectations; decorate and do what is good for your soul, and those closest to you. Bring nature into your home. Sometimes a dozen red or white roses interspersed throughout all the greenery you’ve collected on your walks is all you need. I am not a fan of running out to buy the latest and greatest look that’s marketed to us. Create a warm environment that truly reflects you, simply.
I had a friend whose decorated tree consisted of collected decorations over the years that reflected what had been poignant for her that year. When she got married, her veil was at the top of the tree that Christmas!
Spend time and be creative with what you have. Perhaps you want to reflect on past years; you can have a project table set up with old snapshots and memorabilia where you and your guests could create ornaments or vignettes from memories. If you’re a traveller, showcase pieces brought from afar. Write a poem or words of gratitude for the people at your dinner party. This gift goes a lot further than anything you can purchase.
We all love the gift of time; a simple recipe we make and package nicely will be cherished. I always look forward to my sister’s homemade Pear Chutney in recycled Mason jars. Healthy breads or gluten free granola … the possibilities are endless. I think even a dinner party can be interactive instead of you, the host, bearing all the stress. Guests can contribute recipes and ingredients, and it will be a real time of sharing. Take care of you and have a warm and inspiring Festive Season!
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