by Krista Rossato –
My husband gave me a cautious look as I wrapped the two Hudson’s Bay point blankets that I bought as Christmas gifts for my two young sons. I had been saving for them, as I wanted to give them an iconic piece of Canadian history. They were very excited to finally unwrap them, and although their reactions were perfectly polite, they seemed a little disappointed. However, once fatigue from the day’s excitement set in, one of my sons approached me. It was a magical moment: “Mommy, can I have my blanket?” It was then that I knew I had given my kids something far greater than just a wrapped present – I had given them a gift of value.
As the Christmas season approaches, it’s easy to feel torn between the joy and generosity of the season, and its excesses. In an effort to find balance and reduce consumption, consider gifting fewer, higher-value items that are intended to last a lifetime and will forever create memories. When something has value, be it monetary, historical, sentimental, functional or artistic, we are more inclined to care for it. When we care for something it lasts longer, is better for the environment, and we form a greater attachment until the day comes when it is passed to the next generation. Oftentimes, the cost involves just a little thought or a little time.
Here are some ideas:
1. A favourite book or series: A story that is enjoyed by this generation will be shared with the next.
2. A family heirloom: Knowing the story behind an item may be the difference between throwing it away or keeping it. The Heirloom Registry allows you to preserve the story by affixing labels which correspond to a website where you can record the history and memories of that item for future owners. (heirloomregistry.com.)
3. A piece of Lodge Cookware: Cast Iron becomes better the more it is used. Empower kids to want to learn to cook by giving them their own piece. By the time they leave home, it will be perfectly seasoned.
4. A Victoriaknox Swiss Army Knife: There is something for everyone in this pocket sized multi-tool, produced since the 1800s.
5. A family recipe book: This is a great way to celebrate, preserve and share your favourite family recipes. Include family photos and this gift not only becomes a cookbook, but also a reminder about the celebration of coming together around food.
6. An L.May MFG Minors lunchbox: Canadian-made with an interesting history. Their blog allows the owner to record the story of their lunchbox – be it an old one passed down or a new one. They offer cool colours too! (www.lunchbox.ca.)
7. A skills class: What is learned will be lifelong, and then re-taught.
8. A quality tool: Add a piece to a set every year – be it for the kitchen, the workshop or the garden.
9. A life story: Interview a subject. Ask questions about their life and record it for future generations. (personalhistorians.org; thelifestorywriter.com.)
10. A photoshoot: This is a great way to ensure everyone is in the photo. When taken by a professional the photos are less likely to be buried on a hard drive.
11. A tree seedling: To be planted in someone’s garden or public space. As it grows, it represents the passage of time.
12. A personal creation; make something! An artisan friend of mine is using her skills and resources to make solid wood spatulas for those on her gift list – functional, durable, not so simple, yet forever thoughtful!
Recognizing that there are a lot of resources that go into the items we buy or create gives us reason to consider quality, durable and purposeful gifts that are made to stand the test of time.
