– by Dr. Shelley Breadner –
As the holiday season approaches, we can feel the depths of winter. Cold nights, warm home, many comforts around us. For some, those comforts are sparse or absent. All they may have for companionship are their pets. For others, winter can bring a lack of enthusiasm, somnolence and even depression. The woes of winter can often be counterbalanced by having the blessing of a pet to share in our lives.
Our pets bring tremendous comfort just by being there for us. They give us a sense of security, a purpose for remaining responsible, a reason for getting outside for walks with a dog, for finding ways to play with our cats, or even encouragement to sing with our birds.
How many times a day do you reach out to touch or talk to your pet? We become part of a family, part of community when we have pets. We often talk more to neighbours when we walk our dogs. We laugh when they are playful with their dog friends. We delight in visiting businesses that provide treats for our canine companions. There is also the joy that pets bring to those they meet. A break to greet a furry visitor will brighten most people’s days at work.
Pets also benefit those who are shut in or are in extended care facilities. Visiting pets bring gentleness and affection to these people. Pacific Animal Therapy Society (P.A.T.S.) is a local group that liaisons between hospitals, care facilities and volunteers who bring their pets for therapy. Cats, dogs, birds and other pets are assessed for suitability for social therapy before venturing out to local facilities. What a joyful gift to give during our holiday season!
Cats bring a different kind of comfort from dogs. They help us to be creative in getting them to play each day. Physical and mental exercise for both parties! Cats do tend to bring peacefulness to our lives. There is nothing finer than curling up with a good book and a warm cat on a winter day.
Even if we cannot have a pet, we can interact with the animals outdoors. Maintaining bird feeders will keep us focused daily to ensure we have enough food for our friends. Hummingbirds stay all winter, and it can be a dutiful challenge to keep the feeders from freezing in the coldest of days. Squirrels can be pesky, but entertaining at the same time. Special squirrel feeders can be provided to keep them from stealing all the bird seed. Another way to keep us on our toes!
Winter is a season for reflection and restoration. Take time to connect with your pet, or with those available to you. All you need is an open heart, and you will receive the gift of love in abundance.
